Look To Him

Scott and Deb are the voices behind Look to Him, a podcast for people who are seeking hope, healing, peace, grace, and a real relationship with Christ — especially when life, pain, shame, or even religion itself has made that feel complicated.

They have been married since August 22, 2002, and are the parents of a blended family of seven children and grandparents to seventeen grandchildren, who know them as Pa & Grammy. Their story together began in 1998 in a church-sponsored 12-step addiction recovery meeting — a beginning that says a lot about who they are and why they speak the way they do.

They are not interested in pretending life has been easy, polished, or pain-free. They know what it feels like to wrestle with weakness, disappointment, marriage struggles, parenting pain, addiction and recovery, anxiety, spiritual numbness, family heartbreak, and the gap between what we believe and what we actually feel.

Rooted in their Christian faith, Scott and Deb have spent years teaching Institute of Religion classes focused on healing from the fallen world through a relationship with Christ. But Look to Him is not about performing religion, earning heaven, or sounding spiritually impressive. It is about helping people feel safe enough to turn toward Christ as they are — wounded, weary, skeptical, ashamed, confused, hopeful, or barely hanging on.

Scott brings brutal honesty, lived experience, and a direct way of naming what many people are afraid to say out loud. Deb brings warmth, tenderness, lived experience, and a gift for helping people feel seen instead of judged.

Together, they hope to create a space where faith feels less like a courtroom and more like an invitation — a place to look to Him and discover healing, not because life is simple, but because Christ is real.